Thursday, May 10, 2012

Oooooh Burn. . .

 In a dating and courtship relationship, I would not have you spend five minutes with someone who belittles you, who is constantly critical of you, who is cruel at your expense and may even call it humor. Life is tough enough without having the person who is supposed to love you leading the assault on your self-esteem, your sense of dignity, your confidence, and your joy. In this person's care you deserve to feel physically safe and emotionally secure. 

Elder Holland

Ooooooooo burn.

After everything that has been going the past few days, I feel (and I think my hunny bunny feels) that I haven't been the nicest person.

So that is why today, I vow to bring a smile to his face.

I often forget that he isn't superhuman, though he seems like he is.
I forget he isn't perfect, like I think he is.
I forget he has just a hard schedule (if not harder) than I do.

I very often accommodate to my needs. And I expect him to do the same.
Rarely do I accommodate to his, only if they fit my schedule.

I cry because he can't see me.
But, he never does when I can't.

I'm stubborn and I yell.
He's forgiving and soft-spoken.

I love him so much.
I can't wait to marry him.

He's the man of my dreams.
And he's reality, sitting right in front of me (or texting me/gchatting me/emailing me).



  1. I love you two as a couple. And individuals. But shhhh, that's a secret, right? :)

    I'm sooooo heartbroken I'll miss the wonderful event, but I will make it up with many-a-visits once you're a married couple.

  2. I know. :(
    Don't worry Cec, you will get oodles and oodles of the big day. if it ever happens. . .